When Did I Receive The Gift of Eternal Life?

When Did I Receive The Gift of Eternal Life?

When I Accepted and Believed the Gospel as True

The Reward Is Eternal

“Very truly I tell you, whoever hears my word and believes Him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned but has crossed over from death to life.” John 5:42

In this commentary, I will share with you my personal life experience it took to become born again and consequently receive the “free” gift of eternal life. Here are the sequences of events that took place in my life that brought me to understand the simplicity of the gospel.

My parents raised me in the Roman Catholic faith. I attended a catholic school. I was an altar boy, regularly scheduled to assist the priest serving mass. It was all in Latin then. There were a lot of rituals, ceremonies and strict observances. On each first Friday of the month, a priest would come to school to receive confession and then we would go to church service at 11 am. The month of May was specially consecrated to Mary, Jesus’ mother in daily prayers by reciting the rosary kneeling in front of her statue holding baby Jesus and at the same time crushing the head of a serpent with her heal.   Lent was a special time when we gave up something, mostly sweet for forty days. Was it then that I received the gift of eternal life? If I would have died then as a good catholic, would I've received eternal life? After all, I burned candles for those who were stuck in purgatory and I confessed my sins regularly. No. I would have gone to hell. God forbids us to pray to the dead to intercede on our behalf. Only Jesus is our intercessor. He also forbids calling anyone father. That is reserved for God, the Father only. Jesus instructed us to avoid repetitive prayer and to pray in the privacy of our room.  No, I did not receive the gift of eternal life by following my parent's tradition and religious custom of the Roman Catholic Church.

I stopped going to Sunday mass during my mid-teens. I slowly got interested in the New Age trend. I was more interested in girls than in religion. Gradually, I got more involved in the new age movement and proceeded to study the paranormal phenomenon. If you want more detail of what is behind this read my commentary on the subject: PARANORMAL PHENOMENA, WHAT REALLY BEHIND THIS?

Paranormal consisted of ESP, clairvoyance, mind over matter, communicating with a guide (angel) and many more. I finished college and got a job. A co-worker was also very involved in the paranormal. Actually, he was so much involved, as to let a demon take control over him. He would allow it. He informed me that Satan wanted to see me. It was then that I realized who was behind the New Age movement. Satan wanted to use me as he used my co-worker.  It was then that I asked God the Father to protect me. God did protect me. Satan and his demons were unable to enter my body and unable to use me to achieve their agenda.  I eventually quit my job and moved on. Was it then that I received the gift of eternal life? After all, God answered my prayer to protect me from demons. No. If I would have died then I would end up in hell. 

One rainy morning on my way to work, I was driving up a small winding curve on a hill. My car lost control and I was heading toward two young boys who were on their way to school.  My foot was on the brake pedal and unable to stop, I could see their face in fear of my coming. I asked God to take my life in exchange for theirs... immediately the car swerved and crashed on the opposite side of the road in a rocky ditch. The boys were unharmed. My car was totalled.  Was it then that I received the gift of eternal life? After all, I gave my life to God in exchange for the lives of the two young boys. No, I did not receive the gift of eternal life then, either. If I wound had died then I still would have ended up in hell. 

A door-to-door salesman knocked at my door. Without any hesitation, I asked if he had a bible.   That is when I became curious to search for the truth.  In those days it was forbidden to own a bible, especially with the full Old Testament version. A good friend invited me to a weekend retreat.  It was a gathering of young men for the purpose of getting to know Jesus. All through the weekend, I've listened to testimonies of how Jesus affected their lives, and how Jesus helped them overcome huge obstacles in their lives. It emotionally moved me. I asked Jesus to come into my life. It changed me, it helped me to reconcile with my father, and express my love to my mother, brother and sister.  Was it then that I received the gift of eternal life? No,  if I would have died then, I would have ended up in hell.  

I got interested in attending and being a part of a Christian denomination. I got involved with the Worldwide Church of God.  To become a member, I had to go to a series of interviews. I was even told that I must stop smoking before being baptized. So I quit smoking, got baptized submerged in water, hands were laid on my head and elders prayed for me. This particular denomination observed the Sabbath day of rest, which was from sunset Friday to sunset Saturday.

We also observed all the Jewish feast days, which took part in the Spring and Fall season.  I paid tithe, plus a special tithe set aside for the observance of the Feast of Tabernacle, and every third year a special tithe dedicated to the needy in the church.  I also keep the special dietary ordinance, staying away from eating unclean food as prescribed in the Book of the Law of Moses. It required a lot of discipline to set aside half an hour minimum of prayer in the morning and at bedtime, and one hour of Bible study minimum each day. Surely, at this time you would conclude that I received the gift of eternal life. No. If I would have died then, I would have ended up in hell. 

So, what does it take to receive the "free" gift of eternal life? Is it by going to church every Saturday or Sunday? Is it by giving one's heart to Jesus? Is it by being part of a congregation? Is it by swearing an oath? Is it by keeping the 613 commandments? Is it by sinning no more? Is it by walking down to the front of the congregation stage to accept Jesus as my Lord? Is it by serving in the community? Is it by giving to the poor? Is it by having good conduct and a good reputation? Is it by stopping smoking and drinking? No, none of the above will do. Therefore, what should we do to receive the “free” gift of eternal life?

Some of you would probably argue that God is not that finicky and that He sees the heart. Is God that difficult? It is the opposite; God had made receiving the gift of eternal life so simple and so easy that it makes it hard to see.

What must we do? What is the work that we must do to receive the gift of eternal life? The circumstances in my life made me leave the Worldwide Church of God. I did not attend any other denomination. I took it upon myself to find the truth by reading the Bible and not to take anyone's church version to explain the truth. Something was just not right. There are so many denominations and all claim to have the truth. Yet, why are Christians divided?  Right then are signs that something is drastically wrong. I find that they all have some truth mixed up with confusing theology. I decided to go back to the basics by questioning everything that I was taught.

I started to read the bible again but this time I took it, as is, and took Jesus by His word. What makes God's word difficult to understand? We tend to view the Bible from the secular point of view, the world vantage view that is. We conclude that it is too difficult to understand therefore, it is better to leave it to the theologians. 

I came across an important verse that encouraged my research:

 "No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up at the last day," John 6:44.

God definitely was drawing me to His Son Jesus. All these past experiences of God present in my past reveal that He wanted me to understand something very important, and who would guess that it would pertain to the gift of eternal life.

I read many commentaries. I eventually narrowed my sources to three authors: Lambert Dolphin, Ray Stedman, Jack Kelley and recently Andy Woods. They also provided YouTube and MP3 bible study.  You will find the link below. They all agree that to receive the "free" gift of eternal life is to ... believe that the Son Of God is the Lord and in His resurrection. In all its simplicity, all it takes to receive eternal life is to make a choice to believe in our Lord and King Jesus.

 “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light,” Matthew 11:28-30.

We tend to associate this verse with the problems we face in our lives. Yes, Jesus will help us face life’s troubles, but this verse is directed to a Jewish audience. The Jews are burdened by observing all the laws and ordinances described in the Book of Leviticus. The Pharisees and the Sadducees only made matters worse by adding more to the laws. The Jews are the ones Jesus was addressing; hey, I know by experience, I lived it. Working for my salvation, meaning working to receive eternal life is a heavy-laden burden and it is tough labour to keep our salvation. Jesus is explaining to learn from Him, meaning to take Him by His word and you will find rest, which in turn means to stop working. Take the example of God who rests on the seven days, He stopped creating, and He stopped working.

What is Jesus' yoke that is so easy, what is Jesus' burden that is so light?  It is to BELIEVE. Is it that simple? To believe in what? Believe that He is the one who did all the work so that you may receive eternal life and He is the one responsible for seeing that you keep it.

 "And I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand," John 10:28.

In addition, if that did not convince you, this verse should:

 "My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand," John 10:29

Take the example of Naaman, commander of the king of Syria’s army found in the Book of 2 Kings Chapter 5.  He had leprosy. He heard from a young Jewish girl servant of his wife that, there was a prophet in Samaria named Elisha that could heal him. He brought it to the attention of his king. His king told him to go seek the prophet, get healed, and bring with him silver, gold and clothing. Therefore, Naaman did so. When he got to Elisha's house, Elisha sent his servant to meet Naaman at the door to give instructions to wash in the Jordan River seven times. 

Naaman was furious that Elisha did not make a special ritual and prayer to heal him. He left, fuming. However, one of Naaman's servants asked him, "Would you not follow Elisha's instruction if he would ask you to do something great to show that you are worthy to receive healing?  But, instead, he asked you to do something simple as to dip seven times in the Jordan River." This convinced Naaman so he followed Elisha's instructions to find his flesh restored like the flesh of a little child.

Naaman was very happy and wanted to reward Elisha with silver, gold and clothing. Elisha refused to receive anything. The purpose of God's healing of Naaman an enemy of Israel was to prove that there is no other God on all the earth except in Israel.

Are we not all like Naaman? We refused to consider that the gift of eternal life is so simple to receive. Moreover, there is nothing we can do or give to keep it? Therefore, why are you persisting to disobey His instruction to believe in His Son who did it all for us and promised that nothing will ever take it away? Recognize God's mercy and grace and testify that there is no other God on all the earth except in Israel and His name is Jesus.

 “God is not a man, that He should lie, Nor a son of man, that He should repent. Has He said, and will He not do? Or has He spoken, and will He not make it good? Numbers 23:19

 

By Grace alone, through Faith alone, in Christ alone!

"For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—9 not by works, so that no one can boast." Ephesians 2:8-9

 What is the Gospel? 

Jesus Son of God, shed His blood on the cross, died, was buried for 3 days, and was resurrected. 

 

Word of advice...when in doubt, take Jesus by His word.

c u @ d rapture... soon

“And behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to give to every one according to his work." Revelation 22:12

“This is the work of God, that you believe in Him whom He sent.” John 6:29

The Reward Is Eternal

Andy Woods - https://www.youtube.com/user/kristuskommt/playlists
Lambert Dolphin - http://www.ldolphin.org/

Ray Stedman - http://www.raystedman.org/

Jack Kelley http://gracethrufaith.com/

Supplementary Verses

My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me, and I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand, John 10:27-28

All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away. For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me. And this is the will of him who sent me that I shall lose none of all those he has given me, but raise them up at the last day. For my Father’s will is that everyone who looks to the Son and believes in him shall have eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day. John 6:37-40

In Him you also trusted, after you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation; in whom also, having believed, you were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased possession, to the praise of His glory. Ephesians 1:13-14

Now He who establishes us with you in Christ and has anointed us is God, who also has sealed us and given us the Spirit in our hearts as a guarantee. 
2 Corinthians 1:21-22

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The Most Misused And Abused Verse Exploited By Christians

Matthew 7:1

“Judge not, that you be not judged,”

Is a Cowardly Cliché for Telling Someone 
“To Mind His Own Business.”

"What are we to do about (1 Timothy 5:20)?

"Those Who Are Sinning Rebuke In The Presence Of All, That The Rest Also May Fear."

“My brethren, let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall receive a stricter judgment,” James 3:1.

"And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them," Ephesians 5:11.

In (Matthew 7:1) “Judge not, that you be not judged.” Jesus was addressing scribes, the Pharisees and the Sadducees, (hypocrite v 5).  Jesus teaches us not to judge from a human level. That is hypocrisy.

“Judge not, that you be not judged,” is not meant to turn a blind eye on sexual immorality, homosexuality, adultery, same-sex marriage. Judge because Jesus expects you to judge, correct, rebuke, restore, and warn all according to God’s words.

“Can the blind lead the blind?  Will they not both fall into the ditch?  A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone who is perfectly trained will be like his teacher.” Luke 6:39-40

450 sheep jump to their deaths in Turkey ISTANBUL, Turkey (AP) 

"First one sheep jumped to its death. Then stunned Turkish shepherds, who had left the herd to graze while they had breakfast, watched as nearly 1,500 others followed, each leaping off the same cliff, Turkish media reported."

It is sad.  Most Church attendees are like these sheep...they followed a goat to their spiritual death. This verse, Matthew 7:1 is the most misused and abused verse employed and exploited by Christians and unbelievers alike. Exploited is more adequate.  Satan can’t believe how easy it is to deceive people without lifting a finger.  The misuse of this verse allowed the intrusion of sinful conduct in the assembly of the saints.  Satan is not stupid, and he does take advantage of uninformed Christians.  Christians who do not study God’s words and are satisfied to listen only to a lovey-dovey sermon once a week without a bible open on their laps, find it easy to remember this one and only verse; “Judge not, that you be not judged.”  There is one thought that comes into my mind when someone quotes this verse, and that is “I might as well throw away the Bible, throw the baby out with the bathwater’.

U.S. Congressman Ed Royce a Republican spook at a rally on February 13, 2011, Yorba Linda CA. He stated:

"A big part of the problem we face today is that our children has been taught in school that every idea is right, that no one should criticize others position no matter how odious.  What do we call that?  Multiculturalism!  It has paralyzed to many of our citizens to make the critical judgment we needed to make to prosper as a society.” 

It has gotten so bad that this verse already influences the political arena with its political correctness rhetoric.  The new age movement uses it to support their ideology that there is no absolute.  By leaving God's words out of the picture, you can guarantee that no one knows what is right and what is wrong. 

“There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God.  All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one. Their throats are open graves; their tongues practice deceit.  The poison of vipers is on their lips.  Their mouths are full of cursing and bitterness.  Their feet are swift to shed blood; ruin and misery mark their ways, and the way of peace they do not know. There is no fear of God before their eyes”Romans 3:10-18

For some Christians their philosophy in life is based on that one scripture, closing a blind eye to sinful intrusion into the church, to a point that even sexual immorality conduct creeps into the church without anyone condemning it.  "Judge not, that you be not judged" they will reply! Why?  Christian wants to feel secure.  “Don’t rock the boat” is their motto.  Homosexuality, abortion, and adultery are widely accepted in many denominations. “The church must evolve”, they reply. The Theory of Evolution also influences Christians. The Church has been created on the Day of Pentecost.  Mankind has been degenerating ever since its creation, not evolved for the better good.

Moderators, arbitrators, adjudicators, referees, umpires, critics, reviewers, evaluators, judges, and juries, how can they do their responsible duties without judging?  How can a foreman, supervisor, manager and business owner reprimand or praise employees without judging?

Read Luke 12: 57-58, “Yes, and why, even of yourselves, do you not judge what is right?  When you go with your adversary to the magistrate, make every effort along the way to settle with him, lest he drag you to the judge, the judge deliver you to the officer, and the officer throw you into prison.”  Go ahead; try to get out of this impasse by quoting Matt 7:1  

One of the greatest fears hand in hand with public speaking is fear of criticism. You can’t be a public speaker if you cannot accept criticism.  You can’t be a mature Christian if you cannot accept criticism, to the point of being persecuted for standing up for God’s words.  Let us rephrase (Matt 7:1)….  ‘Judge and you will be judged’…. means if you are going to act in a position of authority be prepared to be criticized and to be judged.  That is a position that any responsible person would assume in taking the role of leadership.  It is a position that is harder and harder to assume because any judgment made is criticized as an offence.  

There is so much disrespect for those who are in a position of authority.  Why?  Because many despise authority, 

“…and especially those who walk according to the flesh in the lust of uncleanness and despise authority.  They are presumptuous, self-willed.  They are not afraid to speak evil of dignitaries”, 2 Peter 2:10.  

“Likewise also these dreamers defile the flesh, reject authority, and speak evil of dignitaries”, Jude 1:8.  

It is harder and harder to fill in a position of authority nowadays. 

" Judge not, that you be not judged.”  What does it mean?  Is it meant to stay quiet and to mind our own business?  The unbelievers and Christians alike are quick to use it against one another.  They are quick to accuse others of being no better than they are.  They are right; we are saved by grace and not by good conduct.  Even Christians caught with their hand in the cookie jars defend themselves by quoting this verse.  Is this what God intended us to do, to stay quiet and to have a blind eye to sins and sinners who have no intention to walk in righteousness in our churches as God commanded us to? 

“but as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, because it is written, ‘Be holy, for I am holy,’”1 Peter 1:15-16.

What about the following verses?

John 7:24 “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.”  

Titus 2:15 “these, then, are the things you should teach. Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you.”  Rebuke, can it be done without judging? 

Matthew 5:21 “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment’.” 

John 9:39 “And Jesus said, “For judgment I have come into this world, that those who do not see may see, and that those who see may be made blind.” 

Revelation 20:4 “I saw thrones on which were seated those who had been given authority to judge.” This describes the Church appointed to reign with Jesus.

Let us study (Matthew 7:1-6) in-depth.

Read (Matthew 7:1-6).  In (Matthew 7:1), to whom is Jesus talking?  Chap 5:1, to a multitude, Jesus went up on a mountain, where?  (Matthew 4: 25)  beyond the Jordan.  The multitude consisted of people from all of Judea and Jerusalem, and from the seacoast of Tyre and Sidon, (Luke 6:17).

Wherever Jesus went, the scribes, the Pharisees and the Sadducees followed Him.   They always challenged Jesus, looking for ways to prove Him wrong and to accuse Him of breaking Moses’ Law.  Jesus was specifically addressing the scribes and the Pharisees in v.1-6.  How do I know that?  Simply, Jesus identified them as hypocrites.  Jesus uses that term only for the scribes, Pharisees and Sadducees such as (Luke 11:44, Luke 12:1, Mark 7:1-6, Matthew 23:27-29).

Why did Jesus call the scribes, Sadducees and the Pharisees hypocrites and what exactly did Jesus know about them that He disliked? 

“Take heed and beware of the leaven of the Pharisees and the Sadducees,” Matt 16:6.  

What was Jesus implying?  Jesus warned them to be aware of the doctrine of the Pharisees and Sadducees.  What was wrong with their doctrine, was it, not Moses’ law?  The doctrine that the scribes, Sadducees and the Pharisees were teaching was added rules and regulations beyond Moses’ law requirement.  Here is how Jesus described them: (Matthew 23:1-30). 

“Then Jesus spoke to the multitudes and to His disciples, saying: “The scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat.  Therefore whatever they tell you to observe that observe and do, but do not do according to their works; for they say, and do not do.  For they bind heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on men’s shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with one of their fingers.  But all their works they do to be seen by men.  They make their phylacteries broad and enlarge the borders of their garments.  They love the best places at feasts, the best seats in the synagogues, greetings in the marketplaces, and to be called by men, ‘Rabbi, Rabbi.’” 

“But woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!  For you shut up the kingdom of heaven against men; for you neither go in yourselves, nor do you allow those who are entering to go in.  Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!  For you devour widows’ houses, and for a pretense make long prayers.  Therefore you will receive greater condemnation.” 

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites!  For you travel land and sea to win one proselyte, and when he is won, you make him twice as much a son of hell as yourselves.” 

“Woe to you, blind guides, who say, ‘Whoever swears by the temple, it is nothing; but whoever swears by the gold of the temple, he is obliged to perform it.’  Fools and blind! For which is greater, the gold or the temple that sanctifies the gold?  And, ‘Whoever swears by the altar, it is nothing; but whoever swears by the gift that is on it, he is obliged to perform it.’  Fools and blind! For which is greater, the gift or the altar that sanctifies the gift?  Therefore he who swears by the altar, swears by it and by all things on it.  He who swears by the temple, swears by it and by Him who dwells in it. And he who swears by heaven, swears by the throne of God and by Him who sits on it.” 

“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith. These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone.  Blind guides, who strain out a gnat and swallow a camel!”  

Do you get it now?  In (Matthew 7:1), " Judge not, that you be not judged," was meant to instruct us not to judge according to the doctrine of the Pharisees and Sadducees. Those who practice "Lordship Savation indoctrination are a good example of behaving like the Pharisees and the Saddcees. 

We are not called to be a burden to anybody.  We are to keep the gospel simple as explained in (1 John 5:3)

“For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome.” 

We are not to impose unnecessary rules and works to gain salvation.  Jesus concluded His instruction of (Matt 7:1-6 in verse 12),

“Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” 

The Law and the Prophets are meant to draw us in fellowship with God, not the opposite.  The Law and the Prophets was meant to draw us in fellowship with one another.  The New Covenant commandments are sum up in three aspects; Believe, trust, and love.  You can read the detailed of the new covenant
commandments in a commentary I wrote on this subject in my Library, Title, “The New Covenant Commandments”. 

"In a series titled “Basic Human Behavior” by author Ray C. Stedman, “The Pattern of Man 1” Ray view Matt 7: 1 in this manner,  

“The way you treat another person is the way you are going to be treated. If you don't like the way you are being treated, take a look at what you are doing to someone else. They are only giving you back what you are giving to them. It is strange -- we all want to live by a double standard, don't we? We all want to have people treat us right, but we reserve the right to treat them differently. We want to be able to be sharp and sarcastic to others, but we don't think that they have the right to be sharp and sarcastic to us. We want to take advantage of somebody else by being lazy and letting them do the work and not taking our fair share of the load, but we don't want them to do that to us.”

“But God says that we can't live that way. The way you treat another is the way it is going to come back to you, so don't complain. That is a basic law of life. The only way it can be conquered is by a change in you. When you change, then others will be changed by that. This is one of the wonderful discoveries we can make. For years we may struggle with a problem in our relationships to others, and we think, "If I could just get these people to change!" Then suddenly we discover that it was we who were causing the problem, and we change. And to our amazement the other people all change too!” 

In Matt 7:6, Jesus explained to His disciples not to waste their time with those who have the same philosophy of the priests, Sadducees and the Pharisees.  “Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces.”  They will only seek to contradict, judge and persecute as they did to Jesus all the way to the cross.  We see the confrontation that Paul and Barnabas experienced from the citizens of Pisidian Antioch; (Acts 13:44-52).

 “On the next Sabbath almost the whole city came together to hear the word of God.  But when the Jews saw the multitudes, they were filled with envy; and contradicting and blaspheming, they opposed the things spoken by Paul, (the simplicity of the gospel).  Then Paul and Barnabas grew bold and said, “It was necessary that the word of God should be spoken to you first; but since you reject it, and judge yourselves unworthy of everlasting life, behold, we turn to the Gentiles.  For so the Lord has commanded us: 

      ‘ I have set you as a light to the Gentiles, that you should be for salvation to the ends of the earth.’ 

Paul quoted Isaiah 49:6 “I have set you as a light to the Gentiles, that you should be for salvation to the ends of the earth.”  God chose Israel to be a light (not a burden) to bring Gentiles to salvation, yet Israel's religious authority completely failed in its mission.  The Church was then given this temporary mission for a little time until the times of the Gentiles are fulfilled mentioned in Luke 21:24. There is a future time when Israel as a nation will fulfill this mission, see Revelation 7:4. 

Do you now understand why it is important to adequately use Matt 7:1, “Judge not, that you be not judged.”  We are not to be a burden on others, especially the new believers in Christ by not teaching the tradition of man, 

“Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men, according to the basic principles of the world, and not according to Christ,” Colossians 2:8

It all comes to the same conclusion; do not judge at a human-level standard.  The scribes, Sadducees and the Pharisees although they represent religious stature, were imposing their standard above God’s Laws.  Jesus shows the example of God's standard by giving attention to human needs first.  He healed on the Sabbath.  We are living in a period of grace.  Jesus came to save the world and not to judge (condemn) the world yet, (John 12:47, Rev 11:18, Rev 6:10).

The misuse and misinterpretation of Matthew 1:7  have caused Christians to continue their sinful ways after receiving the gift of life through Jesus' death and resurrection. In addition, some churches allowed ungodly conduct to enter within the assembly of the saints with no intervention of elders or the church council.  Some might even take offence if approach in such a manner, and will quote you this verse, “Judge not, that you be not judged.”  So what are we to do?  All Epistle of the Apostle has lots to say about it. 

Can the Church carry out these following functions without judging?

• Correction: (2 Timothy 3:16), “All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness,”  Why?  “So that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work”, v16.

• Rebuke: (1 Timothy 5:20), “Those who are sinning rebuke in the presence of all, that the rest also may fear.” (2 Timothy 4:2), “Preach the word! Be ready in season and out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching.”

• Restore: (Galatians 6:1), “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.” 

• Warn: (1 Thessalonians 5:14), “Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly,” Can you see the error when someone quotes you (Matthew 7:1), “Judge not, that you be not judged” when unrighteous conduct are introduced into the Church? The Church is holy and is to be kept holy.

Ray C. Stedman at http://www.raystedman.org in a commentary titled, “Scandal in the Church” (1 Corinthians 5:1-13), explained that the scripture clearly defines what we are to do, not only in a case of sexual immorality from a church member but to all areas where sinful conduct is introduced in the church. He goes on saying:

“There are four clear, definite, practical steps to take  when immorality is present: 

The first one is: There must be a right attitude. We must mourn and feel grief instead of harsh, critical judgment or tolerant, casual love.  (Not according to human standard but according to God instruction in a manner that we do not causes a member to fall away.  Galatians 6:1 “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.”) 

The second step is: There must be a right basis for discipline. Notice what the apostle does not say. He does not say to these elders, "Now you elders get together there and decide among yourselves what you ought to do about this.  Whatever you feel is right, you carry it out.  If you decide that he ought to be excommunicated, if you decide he ought to be fined a certain amount, well, that's fine. Whatever you decide to do is all right.”  No, it is never left to be based on an individual judgment as to what to do. 

 What Paul clearly indicates is that you have already been told what to do -- just do it.  He speaks of "in the name of the Lord Jesus ... by the power of our Lord Jesus ... by my spirit present with you.”  In other words, apostolic and divine authority has already spoken in these areas -- follow it through.  In Matthew 18 the Lord Jesus tells us what to do in cases like this: "If your brother sins against you," he says, "go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone," (Matthew 18:15a RSV). That is step number one.  Do not spread it around; do not ask for prayer about it; do not talk about it; go to the one who is doing the wrong.  This is not something that is a matter of personal injury; this is not something that you have been offended by or that they have not acted the way you think they ought to act. 

 Here Jesus is talking about things that the Word of God has already said are definitely wrong; certain actions (and they are very limited), that the Word of God has already judged. You are to "go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone.”  If he hears you, "you have gained your brother," (Matthew 18:15b RSV).  That is enough; it does not need to go any further; no one else needs to know about it.  "And if he does not hear you," Jesus says, "take one or two others and go and tell him his fault again, and discuss it among yourselves," (Matthew 18:16a).

You need two or three in order to avoid that syndrome that often develops when two people argue, and say, "I said to you already this and this.”  The other fellow says, "No you did not say that at all, you said this and this.") But two or three are there as witnesses that what was said was exactly what was said.  This is an attempt to help somebody see what he is doing and if he listens, that is the end of it.  I want to tell you that that kind of thing goes on in this congregation all the time.  I do not think a week goes by but somebody is not doing this among us, and properly so.  No one ever hears about it, but hundreds of cases of incipient immorality have been nipped in the bud, as it were, by Christians who faithfully go to somebody and tell him that what he is doing is wrong. That is the most healthy thing that a church can do, and that Christians can do with one another. It saves scores and scores of cases like this that would come to ultimate heartbreak if they were allowed to proceed. 

But the Lord goes on to step three: He says, "If he refuses to listen to them [the small group that has come to him], then tell it to the church," (Matthew 18:17a RSV).  Then it must become public; the individuals involved must sense the censure of the church, the feeling that this is not acceptable behavior to other Christians.  Now again this is not to be done in the spirit of self-righteous complacency, smugness, or critical judgment or censoriousness, nothing of that.  It is to be done in a loving statement that this is wrong; it is unacceptable behavior; it cannot be allowed to continue even though you understand the pressures and the problems involved in it. Therefore, it is to be told to the whole church and everyone in the church, then, becomes responsible to try to help that individual to recover from this terrible situation. 

Step four is the final one: If he will not hear the church then "Change your attitude toward him," the Lord is saying, "let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector, as a sinner," (Matthew 18:17b).  In other words, let him be unto you as though he is not a Christian at all.  He has declared himself not to be a Christian by his actions -- even though he claims yet to be a Christian by his words.  You are to treat him as one who is not yet a Christian, but that does not mean with scorn, or with judgment, or with any kind of retribution. Recognize that he has deceived himself, and he is not really born again. Understand that he does not know the basis for purity yet and that he needs to be born again. This is what Matthew 18 is saying, and clearly this is a parallel passage to what we have here.” 
(Ray C. Stedman)

In conclusion: In (Matthew 7:1) “Judge not, that you be not judged.” Jesus was addressing scribes, the Pharisees and the Sadducees.  Jesus teaches us not to judge on a human level. Don’t be a hypocrite. “Judge not, that you be not judged,” is not meant to turn a blind eye to homosexuality, abortion, and adultery within the church.  Judge because Jesus expects you to judge, correct, rebuke, restore, and warn all according to God’s words. 

Ezekiel 18:5-9 

“But if a man is just……………….

And executed true judgment between man and man;

If he has walked in My statutes

And kept My judgments faithfully—

He is just;

He shall surely live!

Says the Lord GOD.”

Prayer: Dear Father, give me the wisdom to judge in a spirit of love according to your righteous judgment and not according to my standard.  In Jesus name, Amen

1 https://www.raystedman.org/old-testament/leviticus/the-pattern-of-man